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Letter to the Editor: Commentary on the Selection of Mayor in Encinitas

Encinitas Councilwoman Teresa Barth weighs in on the issue.

Editor’s Note: The following is Letter to the Editor written by Encinitas City Councilwoman Teresa Barth.

I have been passed over for the position of Deputy Mayor or Mayor for three years and been denied a position to affect change or implement any creative solutions unexplored by the majority. I have been put into an unwholesome place, marginalized and disrespected. It poisons all discussions.

After more than four years the tactics used to stifle dissent are clear; like using a nugget of truth to misinform.  It’s true; there are no formal criteria for the position of mayor or deputy.  The past decades are filled with the ethical approach that each council member should be given the opportunity to serve in these positions.  The criteria was simple - being elected to the council and sharing these roles. It was an expectation of professional courtesy and civil behavior.

Yet this council majority had an "excuse" for breaking this tradition each year:

In 2009, Dan Dalager nominated out-going Mayor Maggie Houlihan back to the position of Deputy Mayor claiming her chemo treatments meant she’d "missed out" on some of the mayoral activities. Yes, he used her cancer as an excuse.

However, Councilman Jerome Stocks was later quoted in the Coast News. “The bottom line is I wanted to send a message to Ms. Barth."  He went on to say . . . "Don't be petty, don't be rude and duck hard votes."  Yes, he spoke of petty, rude and ducking hard votes without a trace of irony.

  • Questioning the city's open government policies (or lack of) is my job, it’s not petty. 
  • Jerome Stocks is not allowed to define rudeness and expect to be taken seriously.
  • I have never ducked a vote but Kristin Gaspar can’t say the same.

Deputy Mayor Gaspar has recused herself repeatedly from votes on the Pacific View property because "she wasn't on council when the issue began." Using that reasoning she shouldn't participate in discussions about the Hall property, the General Plan Update or numerous other issues.  So who is ducking hard votes?  

I am not alone in seeing the hypocrisy of their actions.

In 2010, the North County Times editorial board gave Bond, Stocks & Gaspar a "Reindeer Games Raspberry" for choosing petty politics over civility by failing to appoint me to mayor or deputy mayor.

UT columnist and political writer Logan Jenkins gave Gaspar the “Bonehead First Play” award for "failing in dramatic fashion to live up to her campaign pledge to bridge, not widen, the bitterly personal schism on the council....She's either naive or she's secretly spoiling for a fight while pretending to be Ms. Sweetness and Light"

In 2011 the North County Times editorial board gave Gaspar a “Find a Better Excuse Raspberry” for her position on Pacific View.

North County Times columnist and political writer Tom Arnold made this "Christmas Wish" for me..."The ceremonial position of Mayor....I know they don't like you, but hey, they need to take the high ground."

Yet at last Wednesday's council meeting my colleagues pretended that the process was "broken & needed to be fixed" a bizarre statement considering they broke it.  They have plans, I’m not included and neither is the public.

If you have a Letter to the Editor that you would like to submit, please email it to Marlena.Medford@Patch.com.

 

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